Something of Substance

Something of Substance

Share this post

Something of Substance
Something of Substance
The Messy Middle

The Messy Middle

Overcoming perfectionism with embracing the mess.

Amanda Chase's avatar
Amanda Chase
Mar 20, 2025
∙ Paid

Share this post

Something of Substance
Something of Substance
The Messy Middle
Share

This is not something I am already doing–it’s something I am trying to become.

I have a tendency to be a perfectionist.

The house has to be spotless. The kitchen has to be pristine.

Everything needs to be in place.

Everyday needs to be just like yesterday.

It’s safe. It’s reliable.

It’s exhausting.

My house controls me. My dog controls me. My routine absorbs me.

Keep reading with a 7-day free trial

Subscribe to Something of Substance to keep reading this post and get 7 days of free access to the full post archives.

Already a paid subscriber? Sign in
© 2025 Amanda Chase
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start writingGet the app
Substack is the home for great culture

Share